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  Let's face it. You have no lack of options on the table (or in bed) when it comes to treating premature ejaculation. But before we move on to examine the various alternatives and what makes a good cure, it is important to properly understand what premature ejaculation really is - and if you are really suffering from it. You could be a premature ejaculator if: 1.  You come to an orgasm within 2 minutes of intercourse 2.  You are unable to sexually fulfill your female partner on more than 50% of the occasion 3.  Your inability to last long enough is causing distress to you or your partner But really, you do not need to feel embarrassed or humiliated if you are suffering from premature ejaculation. This is not a form of illness or disease, and the fact that you are among 20 to 40 percent of all men who have to deal with this issue means that you are not alone in this. And the sooner you recognize that you need help, the faster you will resolve this problem and enjoy t...

  If you want to understand how to control premature ejaculation, you have to start off with the facts first. After all, how can you cure a condition (common as it is) without understanding the factors behind it? Fact #1 - Do I have premature ejaculation? Start with the basics. Do you have premature ejaculation? It is quite common among men. However, I won't say that you have it if you are just complaining about not lasting an hour in bed. Truth is, premature ejaculation occurs when you ejaculate before you or you partner want you to. I can understand the frustration and pain you go through when you fail to satisfy your women repeatedly. The good news is that in most cases there is no medical reason behind it. What's more, it is not something you have to tolerate forever. There are authentic ways in which you can tackle PE for good. Fact #2 - Why do I have premature ejaculation? Well, it is usually the result of two factors. 1.  Genetic Programming - This is the result of year...

Am I ejaculating too fast during sex? Do women find my lack of sexual stamina laughable? Am I really pleasing my girl in bed each time I have sex? Do these sound like questions you have been asking yourself lately? If they do, don't be ashamed about it. In fact, as many as forty percent of men have some issues about not lasting long enough in bed. So you are definitely not alone in finishing too soon during sex. Some guys have it so bad that they ejaculate the moment they penetrate their partners. If you are like many men who wish they could last longer, you probably have many questions about premature ejaculation. If so, this article is just for you. Keep reading as we find answers to three common questions asked. How long does the average man last in bed? Five to ten minutes is a common yardstick, although most men are closer to five minutes. Considering the fact that most women take an average of fifteen minutes to reach an orgasm through vaginal penetration, it only means that ...

If you have been wondering about how to beat premature ejaculation and increase your stamina in bed, you will want to read this now. Did you know that masturbation - if performed in the right way - can boost your sexual stamina? It's true. However, there are 4 important tips you need to remember if you are ever going to make a success out of it. Tip #1 - Don't Ever Do It Without the Right Lubricant The purpose of masturbation, especially when you are doing it to last longer in bed, is to make the experience as close as you can to normal sex. When you masturbate without a lubricant, your penis becomes extremely sensitive to a dry hand. So, once you start your experience with your woman, your penis will not be able to adjust to a warm and moist environment. Always use a lubricant when you are masturbating. It is the smart thing to do. Tip #2 - Do Not Rush Through It Men are naturally hardwired to stimulate themselves to ejaculate quickly during masturbation. But to adapt masturba...

  Achieving a permanent fix to your premature ejaculation problem (PE) is the most important thing that any guy can do. Although there are plenty of products on the market that claim to treat PE and help you last longer in bed - such as desensitizing sprays, creams, pills and "climax control" condoms - these really are short-term fixes. To permanently cure your rapid ejaculation woes, addressing the underlying causes of PE is key. So how do you permanently prevent yourself from ejaculating too early during sex? The answer lies in a natural, time-tested 4-step strategy. Let's find out below! Step #1 - Determine the underlying factors of YOUR premature ejaculation There are several causes for PE, and these affect every guy differently. Among these are stress and anxiety (including 'performance anxiety'), as well as bad masturbation habits that were picked up from teenage years. Some guys are also unable to control their ejaculation due to problems relating to erecti...

The problem of ejaculating too early during sex is as old as mankind itself. There are many men who cannot last anything longer than 2 to 4 minutes of straight sex. Worse still, some men last only a mere 30 seconds before their intercourse ends abruptly. There is nothing worse than for a guy who can't last long enough to fulfill his female partner sexually. Many relationships are known to hit the rocks just because the man does not have enough staying power in bed. If you want to be the kind of superb lover who gets to enjoy new exciting heights of sexual pleasure and keep his woman sexually fulfilled anytime, anywhere, then keep reading this article. Can premature ejaculation ruin your sex life? Well, it depends. You see, premature ejaculation only becomes an issue if it is causing a great deal of distress or discomfort for BOTH your partner and you. If your woman gets an orgasm even if you ejaculate within 2 minutes, and is happy with it, there is no need to fret over your 's...

  Many companies want you to believe that you can last longer in bed by using the veritable avalanche of products in their offerings. While you can add minutes to your sexual encounters using stuff like numbing sprays, specialty condoms or special ointments, these products have their own severe limitations. For one, you have to continually depend on them whenever you want to have sex. They are not a permanent cure; just a temporary "band-aid". Lasting Longer Through Arousal Control The best way to last longer during sex is by controlling your arousal during sex. To achieve this sexual milestone, you have to first understand the four stages of male sexual arousal. Arousal is basically the sensations you go through when you become sexually stimulated. By paying close attention to how your body responds and reacts throughout these four stages, you will be in a better position to control how long each stage lasts and enjoy sex to the fullest. The Stages Of Sexual Arousal (Simplif...

Are you sick and tired of being embarrassed whenever you ejaculate too soon during sex? Do you wish you could last longer in the sack and bring your woman to an orgasm before you cave into your own sexual arousal? I am sure you do! In fact over 75% of men wish they had greater staying power and could put the brakes on early ejaculation. Well, then you should first learn about these myths of premature ejaculation (PE) and banish your early ejaculation woes for good. Myth #1 - Premature ejaculation is a sexual disease that has no cure Although PE can be clinically diagnosed as a sexual ailment, it is in no way a disease or a form of illness. There are many causes of premature ejaculation, but the key ones are more adequately labeled as psychological or mental issues. In fact, with the proper conditioning and re-education, you can easily reverse a lifetime of ejaculation problems that stem from early years when you first discovered your own sexuality. Myth #2 - You can use "distracti...

Have you been looking for sex positions that will help you fix premature ejaculation and last longer in bed? Well, your search ends here, to use an often-used cliche! There are sex positions that will not only maximize her sexual pleasure, but will also add minutes to your sex without any additional effort! Interested to learn more? I thought so too! Keep reading... The Best Positions to Last Longer In Bed Position #1 - "The Surreptitious Female Rider" This is perhaps the best position for you if you are looking to last longer. Let her mount atop you while having sex. There are 2 advantages to this position: Greater Control: You can control your arousal completely. This is because this position allows your body to be completely relaxed and stress-free. You are lying on your back and just enjoying the sensations coursing through your body. When you are this relaxed, you can control your arousal whenever you want. Putting Her In Charge: The best advantage to this position is th...

What exactly is premature ejaculation? Well, it depends on who you ask. But the common consensus is that if you regularly come to a climax too early during sex without fulfilling your partner, you may be one of many men who are suffering from premature ejaculation (PE). As many as one in three men are believed to be afflicted with this sexual dysfunction. Actual figures may actually be higher as this is an embarrassing ailment that not many guys are willing to openly discuss. What are the symptoms of premature ejaculation? Premature ejaculation can be categorized by lifelong (primary) or acquired (secondary). The former can be characterized by early ejaculation within one minute following intercourse. This is often accompanied by a severe lack of confidence in bed and in worst cases, an avoidance of sex altogether. On the other hand, secondary PE is often marked by persistent ejaculation before both you and your partner wish that it happens. Guys who are experiencing secondary PE usual...